Don't Be a Loser.
All our lives, from elementary school up, we're bombarded with a fear of condemnation for being a loser. Don't be a loser, we're told. Only losers play video games. Only losers understand computers. Only losers read. Only losers like girls. Only losers think boys are cute. Don't be a loser. We're told this over and over again, like the cracking whip over a slave in training to a taskmaster who is never disobeyed. The words bite themselves into our skin, engraving themselves on our soul and carving themselves into our hearts. Don't be a loser. Don't be a loser. Don't be a loser.